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So heres the deal. I have been single for over 2 years now, and for good reason. I pretty much have been trying to live the Dave Riccio life and bang anything that moves that looks good to me. I am getting a bit older (turn 26 in two weeks) and finally found a girl that I like.

We have been on two "official" dates.....we were set to go on our third when she drops a bomb shell on me....she tells me via text that she had also been seeing some other dude and they made it official. This was about 2 weeks ago. She now has been texting me non stop trying to be friends with me and I have been cordial texting back. She even made me a really good mini pizza when I was home sick from work the other day. She called me last night upset with her new man saying what a dick he is etc. and of course being the "friend" I gave her some sound advice.

Well today at work I realized what a pussie I was being by being there for her and giving her advice in her new relationship, so I had to set her straight. I told her basically in so many words that I really don;t wanna talk to her as friends any longer and if shit doesn;t work out with this douche of a due she can hit me up. She has texted me several times today telling me how confused she is etc and I have ignored all of them. I guess what I am tryin to find out is what should I do just stay close to her and wait till it fails or wait for her flame with the other dude to fizzle and hopefully she calls some time?! Help me my NDL bretheren!

On a side note although it makes me feel a bit creepy I will post some pics of this braud just so you guys can see that she may just be worth my fucking time.


(girl in the silver dress...god she has sexy legs....lol.

id hit it. i dont know what the question was tho

It is stated clear as day in the last sentence.

stop being a pussy

move on.

she picked him cause she knows you're a pussy and will be there either way... fuck her

if you really want the real move, you sweet talk her into one last night and you fuck her (or whatever it is you actually do with her) and then you get up and leave and never talk to her again.

good luck

deep down im a hopeless romantic so you dont want my thought haha. good luck whatever you decide to do man.

daves works too.

Yea, she is getting best of both worlds right now so Id cool down on her and let her sort her shit out.

She needs to decide what makes her happy and you not decide that for her.

You are still young as hell, live it up.
If its meant to be, it will all work out and you might end up together.

If not, oh well.

P.S. yes she is hot

DRiccio21 wrote: you sweet talk her into one last night and you fuck her

+1

LOL Dave I am not being a pussy, I would say I was being a puss if I continued being friends with her. I laid it on her straight but like I told you, when you come across a keeper in my mind you don't just let it go right away. I am not the type though thats gonna sit and wait around for some braud, but again this chick struck me in a good way.

You guys are de though I think if her shit doesn't work out and shes still into me she will call I suppose.....just wondering if some of you thought maybe it would be more wise to stay close that way when shit falls through I can mop the fuck up.

let her figure herself out and then talk, until then put her behind you. You night well miss out on the best woman out there for you because you are so into this one. I recently met a woman that I wish I could date, but I got married very young and I am committed to my wife. However, it was very VERY hard to not go after this girl.. she and I "clicked" on a different level. I never have that much fun spending time or talking with my wife (even in the beginning). I guess that's the price of marriage.

OK.. point is do not miss out on life with your mind stuck on her.

Oh noooo, you ended up in the friend zone!!!

Ask yourself can you be friends with this girl? Is she cool? If you're just going to be friends in case some shit happens between her and her new dude then don't. You're just asking to be hurt if you're waiting on her to dump her dick bf. Trust me girl's don't break up with dicks they just talk to their guy friends about them.

As for her being confused. Of course she is, if she were a dude she would probably still be hooking up with you just not telling you about the other person. Girls really don't do that, they just get confused. Give it a little bit of time and be cordial. If you notice her just bitching about her bf to you then I'd say "listen, I put myself out there for you, you know I like you. But I'm not going to sit here and listen to you complain about a guy that you chose over me"

Riccio has offered up some good advice too.

she has some real rich tits

I am not gonna try and fuck her....one thing that i have never done is try and hook up wth some other dudes woman, regardless if hes a faggot or not...just not my style.

you can live with being 2nd choice?

Show here some of your old HS track photos and the panty pudding will be flowing.

good luck though

BFiVL wrote:Show here some of your old HS track photos and the panty pudding will be flowing.

good luck though

lmao panty pudding??

BFiVL wrote:Show here some of your old HS track photos and the panty pudding will be flowing.

good luck though

LOL panty pudding, thats a new one for me Biffy.

She went to my HS. No worries there.

If you already laid it out for her there is nothing else to say really. If you made it clear you are not happy with being just friends then it is all on her. If she wants more too then she needs to do something about, there never has and never will be a woman worth losing one nights sleep over.

Yea just let her come to you. if not move on the better things man

You wont really know how this girl feels about you until she see's/hears that you have been tallking to someone else, back in the single days I ran across a couple of girls like this, I can't make up my mind, I really like talking/spending time with you, etc...either way when we finally had a relationship it never worked out because I hung around to long and got annoyed with her because she made me wait for her decision.

she is confused for one of 2 reasons;

1.) She really is confused and do you really want to invest in that type of roller coaster of undecisivness

or

2.) She is trying to be like a Guy and play the field in her own way

You have to ask your self
1.) do you like her because you are tired of being single
2.)Do you like her because the thrill of the chase
3.) or do you truly like her because of the chemistry

DRiccio21 wrote:if you really want the real move, you sweet talk her into one last night and you fuck her (or whatever it is you actually do with her) and then you get up and leave and never talk to her again.

THIS!!!

Listen to Dave. You will become an instant NDL legend if you can successfully Soze this girl!!!!