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VeniVediV1ci wrote:good luck packsy i've decided to take the dave route and be 100% take it in the asshole

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Without seeing most of the other responses I say Move the fuck on dude! She made her choice so now thats the bed she has to lie in. Now if she wants to be with that dude and wants you to still fuck her then let all the emotional "like" part out of it and just fuck her on the side. Meanwhile/Otherwise move on cause that chick is pretty hot so odds are if you can pull some ass like that then you can pull ass like that or even better and someone who likes you and is only gonna date you!

Frankie7512 wrote:Without seeing most of the other responses I say Move the fuck on dude! She made her choice so now thats the bed she has to lie in. Now if she wants to be with that dude and wants you to still fuck her then let all the emotional "like" part out of it and just fuck her on the side. Meanwhile/Otherwise move on cause that chick is pretty hot so odds are if you can pull some ass like that then you can pull ass like that or even better and someone who likes you and is only gonna date you!

Agree with Frankie, if she does by chance blow that guy off and come running into your arms, than i would think.....maybe she might run into somebody elses arms down the road.

My rule has always been: if a girl is willing to cheat on another guy by sleeping with you, then you had better believe she WILL cheat on you with another guy. Kick her ass to the curb, it's not worth the pain when you find out that you've been cheated on. It's like being kicked in the sack.

jsence2 wrote:kicked in the sack.

ouch.

jsence2 wrote:My rule has always been: if a girl is willing to cheat on another guy by sleeping with you, then you had better believe she WILL cheat on you with another guy. Kick her ass to the curb, it's not worth the pain when you find out that you've been cheated on. It's like being kicked in the sack.

I could be wrong, but I don't think this girl cheated on anyone. I thought it seemed clear to both guys that she wasn't exclusive with either.

She became exclusive with the 1 dude and immediately told Pat. So, if I got the story straight, it seems like, as much as it sucks for Pat, everything she did was on the up and up.

She could have given him a heads up at some point,a nd probably should have actually, but it wasn't cheating.

shel311 wrote:

jsence2 wrote:My rule has always been: if a girl is willing to cheat on another guy by sleeping with you, then you had better believe she WILL cheat on you with another guy. Kick her ass to the curb, it's not worth the pain when you find out that you've been cheated on. It's like being kicked in the sack.

I could be wrong, but I don't think this girl cheated on anyone. I thought it seemed clear to both guys that she wasn't exclusive with either.

She became exclusive with the 1 dude and immediately told Pat. So, if I got the story straight, it seems like, as much as it sucks for Pat, everything she did was on the up and up.

She could have given him a heads up at some point,a nd probably should have actually, but it wasn't cheating.

No, I'm talking about the guys who have suggested that Pat let her sleep with him on the side while she keeps going back to him.

BFiVL wrote:

just see if you can get her friend to join and make a packys sandwich. keep banging her and do some kinky ass shit to her and see how far she will go. long term, hell no. short term steady hole. keep fucking her.

So I thank everyone for their solid advice.....funny how shit works but last night at the gym I met a smoking ass blonde chick while I was stretching and were supposed to get dinner this week.....fuck yea.

Good to hear packsy-

I've been married 10 years and have been out of the "game" for a while. Sometimes all it takes is taking a step back. Look at the situation (Not a jersey shore reference) and determine the best course of action. Not always easy when emotions are involved.

I think you should just let this girl go. (and by all accounts thats exactly what you are doing!) You will be stronger than ever. Bang her if you can but know even if you do, that she could/will be doing the same thing to you in the near future. Your young and have plenty of time to find "the one". That is if you truly believe in that.

Hey man I was in a similar situation 2 years ago...except i was on and off with the girl for about 6 months, out of the blue she started dating another guy. blah blah blah... I was suuucccch a pussy for about a month after that even worse i played poorly by the guy code to get back at her new boyfriend. It was awful then i realized that the best way to show her what she was missing out on was cut her off entirely. I didnt talk to her for a month and a half to 2 months. She still called or texted everyday and i deleted them and didnt answer her calls. Long story short shes been my girlfriend for a year and half now. Silience will help you get her back or move on entirely.