Shiftdnb wrote:Oh noooo, you ended up in the friend zone!!!
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All seriousness though....you gotta move on, you can't sit there and be her fall-back plan. That doesn't require her to make any kind of decision other than, which one of these guys would I rather be with this week? You're doing the right thing--you've told her to make a decision and if she wants to be with him, be with him; if she wants to give up on him, then she can come to you. But if she DOES that and then she waffles, walk away--it's a sign that she won't make a decision, and you don't want to be with someone who can't commit to you. Not to mention she's basically said you're not as good as the other guy, despite him being a "dick". What's that say???
Like some of the others have said, if you focus too much on this one, you will get blinders on and you will not only fail to see others around you who might be perfect for you, you will start to overlook her flaws and problems due to your infatuation with her. And also, like MCX said, you don't want to make a decision too early in life....I almost did that; glad I didn't, because my ex-fiance turned out to be a nutjob, and I'm now with a girl who I couldn't have created to be any more perfect for me. Just keep looking....if she's right for you, things will fall into place. Don't let the perfect girl slip you by because you're waiting for a girl who made you her #2 choice.
S14: N Texas 7-1
S15: Wake 8-5
S16-21: Washington 9-4, 10-3, 8-5, 9-4, 7-6, 6-7
S22: Ohio 8-5
S23: ECU 12-2
S24-26: Kentucky 8-5, 5-7, 5-7
Career: 102-61
